Life or something like that !!

Some time a small gesture makes you feel good. The other day I received this sms from bhabhi. Apart from general things she told as these are days of extreme heat I should take care and take nimbu paani regulary. How sweet :).

Somewhere I read that your happiness increases and your unhappiness decreases when you share them with somebody. And I just cannot tell you how true is this. For the last couple of months things were not working out well, agree those were created by me only and I was making myself suffer (As they say everything is there in your mind , the way you react makes vulnerable or strong in the given situation). I shared my emotional worries and insecurities with one of my friend, my sis and my dad. And voila, I am feeling much better. I just can’t tell how relieved I am these days. All these days I knew that my suffering is self created and did not hold any ground. At the first place I want very sure about my feelings for her. I myself could never justify the special place she had developed in my life. I was never convinced myself , and during those days I remember the intense fight between my head and heart. And predictably heart won :o) . O kahte hain na heart wants , what it want. There is ...

Spent 3 days at home and this was the best trip ever to home. It was after 2 and half years we all were at home and all of us were free this time to enjoy ourselves to the max. We even visited the village were we spent some 4-5 years in our early childhood. And haan this time I took flight to home :o).

More than taking a stand it seems accepting people as they are makes life easier. People dont act and react the way you do , and expecting them to behave the way you do would be nothing less than foolishness .There are differences and thats what make beauty of relations. Make all the expectations null and void , detach yourself and accept those around you the way they are , life will be easy. It seems I think , therfore I am dangerous :o) . Let go off all expectation and enjoy life as it comes , no setting of standards and comparision. Not atleast in relations. One thing I feel is expectations are image of yourself , its kindda had I been at your place I would have acted or reacted in this particular way in the given situation , and you start attaching expectation which is not only wrong but also undesirable as people are unique in their own way , and now I understand that this uniqueness makes spices of the life . Good learning buddy :o) . Now I am at peace with myself . Atlast this ...

Use of computer in primary education in rural India. Read this .

The other day i was sitting with some of my friends in the cafe odyssy discussing things in general. The discussion steered to the book " Five point someone" written by some ex-iitian about things not to do at IIT. That was quite a good discussion on the target readers and other stuff.One of my friend , Goofy , himself from IIT Madras , came up with this idea of writting a book titled " Without a girl friend - even after IIT". At that time we didnt take him seriously but this guy really seems to be serious. Read his post here .